The truth is that the Law of Attraction operates the same for all of us. Your attitude is the vibe you emanate. And the Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Accordingly, it is your attitude that is drawing your life experiences to you.
So then, how does the Law of Attraction work?
We have thousands of thoughts a day! Scientists calculate up to 90,000 thoughts per day.
Everything we say to ourselves is an affirmation (whether it is positive or negative). Our thoughts, repeated and given the energy of emotion, are creative and therefore create our life experiences.
Your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined. The more you repeat a thought, it will create an imprint in your subconscious mind. Once in your subconscious mind, it attracts to you the people, circumstances, opportunities and experiences that match the images you have created within. Therefore, you can actually program your subconscious mind. You have the power to influence and direct your experiences and thus to create your life by consciously choosing your thoughts.
We are all creative whether we are conscious of it or not. However, it doesn't mean that you can wish for a Maserati and presto, next morning you have miraculously manifested the car of your dreams in your driveway.
If someone has a belief that they are unlucky in love, then they will subconsciously create that reality. They can say all the positive affirmations under the sun, but if the affirmations are in conflict with their beliefs, the affirmations just won't work. The ego likes to be right, so the person will subconsciously either be attracted to the “wrong” type of partner or they will subconsciously sabotage the relationship until they are in a situation where they get to say once again “I’m so unlucky in Love, I always get hurt, men leave me, or why can’t I find someone to love me for who I am.” Until you release your deep seated limiting beliefs, the pattern repeats, relationship after relationship.
Awareness is the first step. Becoming aware of your thoughts and deep seated beliefs. Becoming aware of how they are operating to generate your emotions and ultimately, your life experiences.
If you would like to learn more about how to identify the beliefs that may be limiting you and how to use affirmations to enhance the Law of Attraction to create a life you dream of, contact me to arrange a private consultation either by skype or in person.
If you have identified "Everybody leaves me" as a negative belief about love and intimacy, here’s an affirmation that may help: “I now create a long-lasting, loving, respectful, and fulfilling relationship.”
Join us for the Heal Your Life - Achieve Your Dreams Weekend Workshop being held for the first time in South West Rocks in May 2016. This workshop was created by Louise Hay herself. Anna Rawlings is a certified workshop leader and life coach, licensed and authorised by Louise Hay to facilitate this workshop. For more details on this workshop click here.